Before I Accepted Christ (or gave Him complete control)

I went through a dark struggle of shame and disgrace after I was sexually abused as a child. It wasn’t acknowledged and so, the relationship with my parents strained.

As a teenager, I was vulnerable to boys who preyed on me. Somewhere along the line, I got my security of happiness through sex addiction. I had an abortion at 16 but I just couldn’t forgive myself. The shame and guilt I felt as a child came flooding back.

To numb that pain, I took drugs. Then I didn’t have to deal with anyone from my family.

As the years passed, I was making one bad decision after another. I spent so much money to look good on the outside while avoiding the real problems – an Eating disorder, drug addiction, depression, isolation.

I was living dysfunctional life, detached from friends and family.

Yoga, positive thinking, self-esteem, astrology, numerology, angel therapy, the secret power of attraction… I tried so many new age things to find peace and forgiveness but nothing helped my shame and the pain of guilt.

Between all this, I got married – which I wasn’t prepared for at all. I let my inlaws down with my detached behavior. At this point, I was getting so frustrated with my newlywed life that I was almost suicidal.

That’s where God found me!

Bobby Zachariah

 

Then I volunteered at Connecting NGO, a Suicide Prevention helpline hoping to get help by helping others. The manager there was a believer, Bobby Zachariah. One day during a shift we got talking about God and the way he spoke about God blew me away. He spoke about God as though he knew him as a close friend.

I wanted to know God like that.

But did God want someone as disgraced as me? I wondered but something kept me moving forward in faith.

How I Received Christ (or gave Him complete control)

Elizabeth Alex, content writer pune, freelance content writer

All this was happening while I was working as HR in an IT company. When I needed a team member to share the burden at work, Bobby from the suicide helpline referred Jess, another fellow believer. I hired him and in the months that followed, I became frustrated with his work. 

In truth, I was a horrible boss taking out my personal life’s frustrations on him.

Jess Kurian

And Jess?

He always had that smile, he was always kind and patient with first-time lady boss tantrums. He was speaking the gospel to me with his actions.

I thought to myself if Jess can be so kind and forgiving to me in spite of my transgressions against him at work, how much more loving and forgiving is God?

Everything nudged me to open the Bible to know more. That’s when I started to understand God’s master plan.

Every story, every book had Christ, who took my shame and guilt. Bible was more than a self-help book, it was alive with God’s words!

After I Accepted Christ (or gave Him complete control)

I repented about how irresponsible I was to my body and the life God had to graciously given to me.

He forgave me through Jesus’ work on the cross and I could feel a snuggly hug coming from God every time I spent quiet time or prayed to Him. We became friends,  but more than that, he became my forgiving, comforting, loving, patient father!

With the personal relationship with God established, it was easy to kick my 10-year drug habit, and within a month or so I conceived my firstborn.

Be fruitful and multiply, God said to me in Genesis 1:28

Children are a reward, He said in Psalm 127:3

Even after we had parted ways from work, Jess continued to remain instrumental in my spiritual life.  Jess was the one who suggested I join a bible-believing church called Marg . Praise God for friends like him!

With the newfound fellowship, I finally understood how indebted I am to Christ. I accepted Christ to be the Lord of my life and was baptized.

He rid of all my pain, shame and disgrace.

Elizabeth Alex Baptism

I’m still struggling every day (and boy! being a Christian is not easy!) to act in love as a parent, as a wife, as a daughter and a daughter in law but performing all earthly roles only with His grace, putting on the armour of God

I want to bring my children up to be women of God, be the Proverbs 31 wife, have David’s heart and a woman who is a light in the darkness just like Christ.  John 1:5

And I want to do this because Christ loved me first, took my shame and restored my relationship with God.

Let all glory to be God!

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Author: Liz

Child of the King. Wife. Mother. Writer. Lover of all things sweet and honest.

14 Replies to “Hello world! This is my Testimony

  1. Oh what a lovely start! Go girl Liz! You have the courage to speak words that I could only mutter under my breath beneath a pillow, deep in the dark of the night… Following you like a shadow..

    1. That means a lot Sophia! Don’t hesitate to give your honest feedback if you feel something’s not right or if you’d like to see any specific topics to be featured, I would really appreciate it all. Thanks! and I hope you enjoy what’s coming 🙂 Be sure to subscribe so you get to see it first!

  2. Hey liz….want to know more about real You….the one who dares to overcome all her fear and has the courage to speak her heart out…really admire!!

  3. After reading this, I can only say your a very brave girl… like a caterpillar who struggles to get out of a cocoon, only comes out like a beautiful butterfly.

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